TED: The power of introverts by Susan Cain (lawyer, writer)-6
by Fraupark2023. 7. 3.
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(출처: TED)
So I just published a book about introversion,and it took me about seven years to write.And for me, that seven years was like total bliss,because I was reading, I was writing,I was thinking, I was researching.It was my versionof my grandfather's hours of the day alone in his library.But now all of a sudden my job is very different,and my job is to be out here talking about it,talking about introversion.
And that's a lot harder for me,because as honored as I am to be here with all of you right now,this is not my natural milieu.
▶milieu : (사회적) 환경 (=background)
So I prepared for moments like these as best I could.I spent the last year practicing public speakingevery chance I could get.And I call this my "year of speaking dangerously."
And that actually helped a lot.But I'll tell you, what helps even moreis my sense, my belief, my hope that when it comes to our attitudesto introversion and to quiet and to solitude, we truly are poised on the brink on dramatic change.I mean, we are.And so I am going to leave you nowwith three calls for action for those who share this vision.
▶brink : (아주 새롭거나 위험하거나 흥미로운 상황이 발생하기) 직전, (벼랑·강가 등의) 끝
Number one: Stop the madness for constant group work. Just stop it.
And I want to be clear about what I'm saying,because I deeply believe our officesshould be encouraging casual, chatty cafe-style types of interactions --you know, the kind where people come togetherand serendipitously have an exchange of ideas.That is great.It's great for introverts and it's great for extroverts.But we need much more privacy and much more freedomand much more autonomy at work.School, same thing.We need to be teaching kids to work together, for sure,but we also need to be teaching them how to work on their own.This is especially important for extroverted children too.They need to work on their ownbecause that is where deep thought comes from in part.
▶serendipitously : 우연이 인연으로
Okay, number two: Go to the wilderness.Be like Buddha, have your own revelations.I'm not sayingthat we all have to now go off and build our own cabins in the woodsand never talk to each other again,but I am saying that we could all stand to unplugand get inside our own heads a little more often.
Number three: Take a good look at what's inside your own suitcase and why you put it there.So extroverts,maybe your suitcases are also full of books.Or maybe they're full of champagne glasses or skydiving equipment.Whatever it is, I hope you take these things out every chance you getand grace us with your energy and your joy.But introverts, you being you,you probably have the impulse to guard very carefullywhat's inside your own suitcase.And that's okay.But occasionally, just occasionally,I hope you will open up your suitcases for other people to see,because the world needs you and it needs the things you carry.
So I wish you the best of all possible journeysand the courage to speak softly.